Random thoughts from a single girl

I am single. I am happy. I am whole. I want for nothing- not even a husband.

Its true. Gone are the days of my mid twenties when every prophetic word I could correlate with my husband coming. Gone are the days when every birthday and holiday was capped off with the hopeful, yet yearning statement, “Next year, I will get to do this with my husband, I just know it.” Gone are the days of settling where, every guy friend was a potential mate.
Thank God, for the Holy Spirit. Because being single, in my opinion, is not the most celebrated thing in Church.
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The most beautiful adventure

To tell you this story, I would need to start with the girl I was 8 years ago.

She seems like a stranger to me now, with her just-so JLo highlights, and caked on makeup. Her chain smoking, swearing, and party all the time, yet don’t mess with me attitude. Some days, I think back on who I was then, and I feel like I am telling stories of a mythical version of myself. A me I used to play. Which is, in fact, kind of true.

It was summer of 2002. I was in what I lovingly refer to as my wild child state. After the fall of the towers, I was convinced that the world was ending and I might as well get all of the debauchery in while I could. Newly single, and completely and utterly willing to try anything that was legal (and unfortunately, some things that were not), I entered a season of excess.

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Then one day LIFE happens

Me and Auntie at Kuya's wedding. Yes my hair is navy blue.

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